'There is no secret to being a good husband': Jeffrey Xu and Felicia Chin on how they maintain marriage 1 year on

'There is no secret to being a good husband': Jeffrey Xu and Felicia Chin on how they maintain marriage 1 year on
Felicia Chin and Jeffrey Xu celebrate their first wedding anniversary next month.
PHOTO: Instagram/Felicia Chin

It seems just yesterday that local actors Felicia Chin and Jeffrey Xu tied the knot in a classic church ceremony.

But come next month, it'll be one year of wedded bliss for the celebrity couple.

In a recent interview with Shin Min Daily News, they revealed that they will be going to Okinawa for four days to celebrate their anniversary.

Jeffrey, 34, added that it was where they initially planned to get married, but settled for Singapore as it didn't line up with their schedules.

"Once, when Felicia was done filming a show, my gift to her was a trip to Okinawa," Jeffrey said. "She went alone at that time and enjoyed it, because the pace of life there is very slow, so she said that we should go together next time.

"Now we have found the time, so we decided to go together and take a break."

Japan was also where the couple spent their belated honeymoon back in March.

Felicia and Jeffrey also shared their tips on how to maintain a good relationship.

Felicia recommended using your partner's preferred love language to fill their "love library" so it'll be easier to tackle any friction in your relationship.

Read Also
'You were tossing the petals with so much sincerity': Belinda Lee thanks Felicia Chin for her friendship
entertainment
'You were tossing the petals with so much sincerity': Belinda Lee thanks Felicia Chin for her friendship

"For example, Jeffrey likes to do common activities together, and I will find time for us to ride bicycles together so I can talk to him more," she said.

"Jeffrey also knows that my top love language is physical touch, so when I'm sad, he'll take my hand or hold me."

She also emphasised the importance of people expressing feelings clearly for their partners to understand them better.

When asked for the secret to being a good husband, Jeffrey insisted there is none.

"It's only that, after my wife has finished a day's work, I'll pick her up when I'm free, and ask her how she is doing and be thoughtful," he said.

"At home, I also need to contribute to household chores, because the home doesn't just belong to one person, we all have to contribute to each other."

While Jeffrey and Felicia have their own ways to maintain a harmonious relationship, they also have their tiffs.

In a previous interview with AsiaOne, Felicia revealed how they had quarrelled while managing a stall for variety show Pasar Malam Stars.

"During our onscreen discussion, we thought of selling cold brew tea and Korean food and didn't come to a complete conclusion. We continued our discussions off-screen," she said.

Read Also
entertainment
'Once again violated principles for personal gains': Li Jinglei rebuts Wang Leehom's statement after mediation

"We only reached home at 1am and continued talking till 2am. I remember we even quarrelled till past 3am and didn't reconcile before going to bed."

In fact, there were even tensions between the couple when they got to work the next day at 9am, and Felicia told us they didn't talk much while getting their makeup done.

"It was only after makeup that we hugged and kissed each other to reconcile," Felicia elaborated.

The moral of the story according to Felicia? "Don't talk when we're tired."

In their Shin Min interview, the couple revealed further how they manage arguments, with Jeffrey saying that they give each other space and only talk it out after they've dealt with their negative emotions.

Felicia added that they both take the initiative to apologise if they've said or done something they shouldn't have, and express concern for each other's feelings.

Read Also
entertainment
'Don't reveal too much': Roxanne Tong tells Kenneth Ma not to share wedding details

drimac@asiaone.com

For more original AsiaOne articles, visit here.

homepage

trending

trending
    Family of police trainee who died in accident reaches out to good Samaritans who stopped to help
    Police officer injured after motorcycle skids on PIE
    Now you can get Springleaf prata in a cup - with curry - from a vending machine
    Female primary school teacher allegedly committed sex acts with underage male student
    Cat A COE prices cross $100k mark again in first bidding exercise for July 2025
    'I could not possibly discard the embryo': Lee Si-young pregnant with second child through IVF months after divorce
    'They were so caring': Woman praises AirAsia staff's response during toddler's in-flight medical emergency
    Appeal hearing for Pritam Singh's conviction, sentence set for Nov 4
    Orh Gao Taproom, popular bar by night and kopitiam by day in Serene Centre, to shutter
    'It's our grandfather's company, we won't sell', says Wong family as shareholders reject GE delisting bid
    Singaporean man found following 15-hour disappearance, 2 days after wedding in Malaysia
    Jurong West homeowner evicts tenant after power bank catches fire and damages flat

Singapore

Singapore
    • NDP celebrations headed to heartlands on Aug 10 with mobile column, fireworks and festivities
    • 'No room for complacency': Chan Chun Sing says public service must continue to innovate in face of rising expectations
    • NDP 2025: Leopard tank which hit traffic light had faulty component
    • Body left at hospital linked to JB petrol station shooting
    • 'There aren't really many opportunities right now': Fresh poly graduate who landed contract role on job hunting
    • SIA flight from Brisbane to Singapore 'experiences technical issue', diverted to Perth
    • Property tycoon Ong Beng Seng set for another pre-trial conference on July 23
    • 'I spend whole day teaching him': Differently abled son learns to cook char kway teow as hawker parents battle serious health issues
    • Reform Party to leave opposition group People’s Alliance for Reform; 2 parties remain
    • Jail for ex-auxiliary police officer who loaded 1 bullet and accidentally discharged revolver

Entertainment

Entertainment
    • High energy, strong vocals: J-pop boy band Be:First makes explosive debut in Singapore
    • Shane Pow reveals how much his Star Awards outfit from Taobao costs
    • Ayumi Hamasaki turns first solo Singapore concert into full-blown musical spectacle
    • Roblox avatar and lantern: Star Awards 2025 looks that made us go 'huh?'
    • Where Chow Yun Fat was spotted at while in Singapore for Star Awards 2025
    • Cast of K-drama Low Life recounts battling peak summer conditions while filming 1970s underwater chase for treasure
    • Christopher Lee and Mark Lee to star in new Taiwanese movie No Good! Ojisan
    • Denise Richards and Aaron Phypers split after 6 years of marriage
    • Jon M. Chu to direct live-action Hot Wheels movie
    • Andie Chen admits 'traces of loss and loneliness' after 10th acting Star Awards defeat

Lifestyle

Lifestyle
    • Singapore Food Festival returns in September, includes SG60 Specials series
    • From Singlish-themed cups to T-shirts repping our neighbourhoods: Here are some SG60 collections to look out for
    • 'It brings out a certain inner child in them': Parkour instructor works exclusively with the elderly to help them keep fit
    • From blogger to Singapore's top influencer: Naomi Neo celebrates 1m Instagram followers after 14 years
    • Sleeping on the job: This company will pay people $7 per hour to nap
    • Chanel shows haute couture in private salon setting at Grand Palais
    • McDonald's launching Chilli Crab Sauce Burger in collab with Jumbo Seafood, also releasing limited-edition Lunch Bag
    • Is it possible to design an entire home in 10 hours? I took up the challenge in one mall
    • Where to get cheap haircuts in Singapore (2025 update): Kcuts, Snip Avenue, Kimage Hairdressing School and more
    • Why more young families are moving to Pasir Ris (hint: it's not just about the new EC)

Digicult

Digicult
    • Slim, sleek, but slightly too short-lived: Samsung Galaxy S25 Edge review
    • World's best Dota 2 teams to compete for $1m prize pool in Singapore in November
    • 'Report 1 shop, another 10 appear': Hoyo Fest artists on copyright struggles
    • NTU penalises 3 students over use of AI tools; they dispute university's findings
    • Australia social media teen ban software trial organisers say the tech works
    • Disney, Universal sue image creator Midjourney for copyright infringement
    • Initiative by IMDA, AI Verify Foundation tests AI accuracy, trustworthiness in real-world scenarios
    • Under siege? Helldivers 2's latest city to be invaded by aliens could be spoof of Singapore
    • Honor 400 Series launches in Singapore with first free in-device AI image-to-video tool
    • Home Team humanoid robots to be deployed by mid-2027, $100m to be invested: Josephine Teo

Money

Money
    • Best credit card promotions in Singapore (June 2025): Citibank, DBS, HSBC, UOB and more
    • Temasek sees $45b rise in net portfolio value to record high of $434b amid global uncertainties
    • Japan, South Korea hit with 25% tariffs as Trump ramps up trade war in letters to leaders
    • Trump says alignment with BRICS' 'anti-American policies' to invite additional 10% tariffs
    • Regulators warned Air India Express about delay on Airbus engine fix, forging records
    • Higher seller's stamp duty a 'light touch' to curb property flipping: Experts
    • Trump tax bill averts one debt crisis but makes future financial woes worse
    • Seller's stamp duty rates for private homes raised; holding period increased from 3 years to 4
    • Trump escalates feud with Musk, threatens Tesla, SpaceX support
    • Online groceries in Singapore: Which supermarket has the cheapest delivery fees?

Latest

Latest
  • China detains female erotica writers in pornography crackdown
  • China hit by floods, landslides and heat as extreme weather takes its toll
  • Daily roundup: Cat A COE prices cross $100k mark again in first bidding exercise for July 2025 — and other top stories today
  • 10 dead after bridge collapses in India's Gujarat, NDTV reports
  • 'Ghost camp': Israeli operations in West Bank push wave of Palestinians from their homes
  • Thailand parliament starts debates on sensitive political amnesty bills
  • Marseille airport closed as firefighters continue to battle wildfire
  • Malaysia calls for stronger inter-Asean trade amid tariffs uncertainty
  • Flash flooding in New Mexico resort town traps dozens in homes and vehicles

In Case You Missed It

In Case You Missed It
  • Woman injured on SMRT bus after bottle thrown at vehicle shatters window
  • Singaporean drivers rack up over $17k in fines for VEP violations in 5 days
  • Long time no see! Sharon Au, Li Nanxing, Yvonne Lim and others return to Star Awards stage
  • Boy, 9, has kidney removed after falling at Bukit Batok playground
  • 'We just want our money': Income Insurance shareholders disappointed at failed Allianz deal
  • Buying property in Malaysia as a Singaporean: 6 key restrictions to be aware of
  • 'I thought it was just firecrackers', says eyewitness after man fatally shot multiple times inside vehicle in Malaysia
This website is best viewed using the latest versions of web browsers.